Facebook Icon Twitter Icon Email Icon Pinterest Icon  
FOG and MIST 68.0F Forecast »
Advertisement

Aug 9, 201208:24 AMNine Months... and Counting

Tales from a Mom-to-be

Got pregnant, lost ability to make decisions

Aug 9, 2012 - 08:24 AM

The first 16 weeks of pregnancy were fabulous. Luckily, I am one of those women that everyone hates, because I didn’t have a lick of morning sickness. Life was glorious! Besides the ever-growing belly I developed rather quickly, I didn’t have too many other signs.

I am now 17 weeks pregnant and cannot make a decision about anything for the life of me. Is this a common side effect of pregnancy?

This lack of problem-solving skills and inability to choose simple things has come out of nowhere. Bean Pole will ask me what I want for dinner and the best answer I can muster up is, “I don’t know.” It’s terrible. Then, just when I think, “Aha! I definitely want this without a doubt, I am so hungry give it to me now,” the plate of food gets set down and I don’t want it at all—two bites in and I am done. And this is just food.

Choosing clothing in the morning is pure torture, let alone picking a perfume from the overflowing basket I have collected. Thankfully, I only have one deodorant stick; I can only imagine the dilemma that would cause.

Even in the shower, I can’t pick which shampoo to use. I’ve been closing my eyes and grabbing. 

I don’t even know what TV shows to watch at night, so Bean Pole has been in his glory holding the remote and in total control.

Thank goodness for books, and me only allowing myself to add one to the kindle at a time so as not to get completely overwhelmed. I am pretty confident I was not this nutty prior to pregnancy. I also sincerely hope that once the baby is here, I can make a choice. If not, Big Bird is in for a long ride.

So to all the mommies out there, I ask: does this go away? I’m desperate to know that I will indeed be OK.

Share your stories with me! I want to know what to expect next!

Post your comments here or email Brooke at editor@centralpennparent.com ATTN: Brooke.      

Aug 9, 2012 10:21 am
 Posted by  sehbub

Meh. It'll come and go once your baby arrives. You'll still experience "mommy brain" on occasion, and do things like put the milk in the pantry and your keys in the fridge, but it'll even itself out over time, once you get in to a groove with life as a mom.

I swear, we push out brain cells with the placenta. I got a little more scatter-brained with each pregnancy.

Add your comment:
Bookmark and Share Email this page Email Print this page Print Feed Feed

Advertisement

Advertisement

About This Blog

About this Column

While trying to think of a creative way to introduce myself, the theme song to The Addams Family began playing in my head. While I can be “kooky,” I am not so sure I’m “spooky” or even “ooky” for that matter—whatever that may mean. I’ll look it up later.

My name is Brooke. I’m 28 years young and married to the love of my life (we’ll call him Bean Pole for future reference, because he’s really tall and kind of looks like Michael Phelps. I, however, am really, really short and, unfortunately, do not resemble anyone famous.)

We got married in September 2011 and are expecting a baby in January. We recently found out we are having a boy—which is good because Bean Pole, I am fairly confident, would send the baby back if he were a girl.

Meanwhile, I’m already a mommy to two beautiful miniature pinscher/toy terrier mixes, Zoey and Roost. I would save all the animals of the world if Bean Pole would let me but, alas, I am only allowed two pups.

I graduated from HACC with a degree in Humanities/Language and the Arts. I love music and musical theatre, and I love supporting my family and friends in their hobbies and interests. I really enjoy spending time with all of my family. I can’t wait to get to know you and your families as I share my experiences in being an expectant and new mother and, hopefully, you will leave comments or drop me a line now and then with your stories.

Recent Posts

Archives

Feed

Atom Feed Subscribe to the Nine Months... and Counting Feed »

Advertisement